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Are you still with me? We did it! We made it to the end of the Enneagram. Type nine! My favorite type of all. Today I want to talk about what the perfect day looks like if you are an enneagram nine!
Coined as my favorite simply because that’s me! Enneagram 9, people pleaser, peacemaker at your service!
As an Enneagram coach, I have a pretty good grasp on all nine typings, but being a fellow nine, I feel as if I have the best grasp on how we work and connect with others.
My perfect day would consist of me being in my comfy clothes, wrapped in a cozy blanket watching a show while having pizza made for me just the way I like it, or having it delivered to my house so I didn’t have to go anywhere.
I’m a creature of comfort. I won’t buy adorable-looking shoes if they hurt my feet and if an article of clothing is super soft and comfy I will usually buy it. I’m pretty sure that all items from Barefoot Dreams are made for a type 9. You might be wondering why the heck I’m telling you all this. Nines are also really good at not getting to the point right away and will ramble on in story form so… yeah.
Yep, there I said it. Our easy-going disposition can make us come across as wishy-washy, uneducated, or just plain don’t care. And while a lot of the time we don’t care, a good portion of the time we do, we just don’t want to rock the boat in any way for us internally or externally so sometimes staying quiet is just easier (or so it seems to us) UNLESS it’s something we care very deeply about or believe in completely. Then, we have no problem saying how we feel or standing up for ourselves or others. Are you confused yet? Ok good, me too.
You just might not see it upfront and center. A lot of the nines in my life that are successful business owners are like this for a lot of different reasons but one that I’ve observed is that they can be bolder in their businesses because they use their 8 wing more, they’re more organized, and structured because of their 1 wing and really, really driven because of their “growth” number of 3. That was a lot of numbers thrown at you but just trust me when I say that nines can be extreme powerhouses that should not be underestimated.
Why am I telling you this?
If you’re a nine, especially in business, and you don’t feel like you can be taken seriously OR you know someone that is a nine, here are some ways that you can help communicate yourself better or communicate with a nine better.
NOTE: Wanting to know yourself better? What about your co-workers or significant other? Using the Enneagram to learn how you work and communicate with others is such a powerful tool! Knowing your Enneagram number will give you an edge when connecting with others and building an incredible brand! Snag my digital guide and learn about all the different types HERE!
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